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Advice on having a baby at 36?
I will be 36 yrs old soon. Husband wants to have another baby. I do too. But I am worried about my age. You see young women in their 20's having baby's but I have not really seen any my age pregnant... What is the age limit? Any suggestions? I already have a 8 yr old and 13 yr old about to go on 14. Any advice? Is there anyone else that has had a baby around my age? Thanks all !!!!
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Permalink Reply by Mellanie on -
In my 20s, I was not interested in having children. Just wasn't the right time. Once I hit 30, I realized my biological clock was ticking and knew my eggs wouldn't be viable forever :) I also have PCOS so I knew getting pregnant may not be easy for me. My hubby and I were in a good place financially and I had to at least try. I was shy of 32 when I had my daughter. I will be 35 in a few months and we have been trying again. I know they say that after 35 it's considered a high-risk pregnancy, but honestly, I never considered myself as too old to have children. With all the medical advances and knowledge this day and age, many "older" women are having healthy pregnancies and children. There are always risks with any pregnancy, no matter what the age. I do get comments from family saying I'm getting "too old" and better hurry up, but I just wave them off, lol. Talk to your OB/GYN as they are aware of your medical history and health and would be able to answer your concerns appropriately. Good luck, momma!
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Permalink Reply by Online Mom on -
Hi Rhonna
I didn't met my husband until I was in my 30s, so I was 33 when I had my daughter and 34 when I had my son. We decided to have our second baby so soon because we knew that clock was ticking. Now I have a 1 & 2 yr old and want to try for a 3rd baby when I'm 36.
I know a lot of people think that it's wrong, but if you have that love in your heart it's right for your family. I'll share one tip from my OB/GYN, start exercsing before becoming pregnant. My OB says that being at a healthy weight and getting regular exercise ( for me - walking daily ) is the best way to maintain a healthy pregnancy and help maintain stamina for a new baby later on
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Permalink Reply by Jmarr on -
Generally, most people I knew growing up wanted to put college first, sometimes grad school, eventually marriage, then a good 3-5 years baby-free marriage, then babies. That puts most of them into their mid 30s by the time they marry.
I did always seem to be one of the oldest moms in the local playgroups...and I was only 31 when I had my first child and 35 when I had my second. In any case, with modern medicine, it is safer now to have a baby later in life, even into your 40s. That is not to say that there are not increased risks.
Officially, when I had my kids, 35 was considered "advanced maternal age", requiring additional testing.
You can always ask your OBGYN if you are concerned about your age, but if you are healthy, I suspect they will support you in your decision to have another child.
My aunt had my cousin at 41, and that was in the 60s! I have a few friends back home who had trouble getting pregnant and had babies in their 40s. My sister got married around 33 and had her first at 35, and last at 39...even my grandmother (it is rumored that Irish people got married later than most) had my dad in her 40s.
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Permalink Reply by courtney on -
I actually know a bunch of lady's who are having babies later. A lot of people I went to school with are working on building there family's. and we are all in our mid 30's.
it is only your and your husbands decision to make. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Do what makes you happy.
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Permalink Reply by DisneyMamaTo2 on -
My younger son was born 6 months prior to my 36th birthday. There are definite advantages and disadvantages to having a baby later in life. Depending on your activity level, it amy be more difficult to return to the same level or it may do more damage to your body. Your hormones are likely aleady changing, and it could be more challenging to become pregnant.
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Permalink Reply by Becky Pease on -
I am 32 will be 33 in a couple of months, I have a 15 year old son that will be 16 next month and I have a 14 month little girl. & we will be TTC Soon for #3.... I say as long as your healthy, and truly want another child, I don't see your age OF 36 being a big problem, as far as conceiving or having a perfectly healthy baby. I say follow your heart on this one. Only you can decide what's best for you and your family. ((:
Good LUCK on whatever you decide!! ♥
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Permalink Reply by Chris Labonte on
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My wife and I had a son a year and a half ago when she was 36 and everything went textbook. Six months ago we found out she was expecting again. Twins! So far everything has been textbook. Due date is April 10 but doctor has said expect them anytime after March 1; twins usually come early. The only difference this time around is that we make monthly trips to a maternal-fetal specialist in Tampa in addition to our local doctor for additional monitoring and genetic testing. One thing I will say is that this time she is a bit more nauseous and her back often hurts. The doctor said this is normal and should disappear after the birth.
As others have mentioned, be sure to consult with your doctor and good luck!
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Permalink Reply by Shawn Spivey on -
Congratulations Chris to you and your wife! How exciting and we hope to have happy updates. :)
Chris Labonte said:My wife and I had a son a year and a half ago when she was 36 and everything went textbook. Six months ago we found out she was expecting again. Twins! So far everything has been textbook. Due date is April 10 but doctor has said expect them anytime after March 1; twins usually come early. The only difference this time around is that we make monthly trips to a maternal-fetal specialist in Tampa in addition to our local doctor for additional monitoring and genetic testing. One thing I will say is that this time she is a bit more nauseous and her back often hurts. The doctor said this is normal and should disappear after the birth.
As others have mentioned, be sure to consult with your doctor and good luck!
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