Connecting moms in Polk County, Fla.

Is there a local Widows group? or maybe start one?

I became a widow at 38. I am almost 42. Mom to a 20 and 9 yr old. Going thru ALOT of emotional yo yo's ..still. If anyone would like to maybe start a chat or discussion...maybe even meet up to talk, I know I might get alot out of it. Thanks alot!!!! Tammy

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Permalink Reply by Alicia (Alsan) on June 11, 2012 at 8:08pm

At this link I saw Hope Hospice sponsors a widow/widower group in Highland City and Lakeland, I don't know if you're aware of those.
http://www.polkcaregivers.org/support_group.php

I'm not in your situation but hugs to you!

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Permalink Reply by tammy barnes on June 11, 2012 at 8:58pm

Thanks Alicia. His passing wasn't 'hospice' related, and i've tried Good shepard, but there is alot of focus on God (I mean no disrespect) I guess just reaching out to try to find other moms w/ a similiar situation. But thanks alot!!!

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Permalink Reply by Alicia (Alsan) on June 11, 2012 at 10:13pm

I was hoping that just because it was sponsored by hospice didn't necessarily mean it had to hospice related.

Your in my thoughts.

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Permalink Reply by Shawn Spivey on June 11, 2012 at 10:44pm

Tammy I can't imagine getting over something like this, I don't think one ever does. My husband lost his first wife 12 years ago and still has issues. He, finally, has decided to start some personal counseling. I hope it brings him peace. I'm not sure if that's an avenue you've explored or considered but seeing what he has gone through, I think it is helping him.

Although many of us have not experienced the loss of a spouse by death, a lot of us have lost relationships via divorce or break-up. I know that's not quite the same but a loss in some regards. Plus, we are mommas here. :) Feel free to chat with us, online and off if you need a shoulder or ear to listen. :)

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Permalink Reply by Jennifer Sabin on June 12, 2012 at 8:04am

Tammy,

I'm sorry you have to experience this at such a young age. The only resource that I know of is called Grief Share. It is a chance for people who have experienced the death of someone they love to get together and continue on the healing journey. I don't know a ton about it, here is a link with the dates & times of the meetings for the rest of this year.

http://www.kathleenbaptist.com/GriefShare.htm

Edited to add: I just read your reply about Good Shepard, so this might not be what you are looking for... I'm not sure.