VBAC

Ok moms, I need some advice.

I have a two year old son, amazing little guy, and I am currently 19 weeks with our second baby. I had a c-section with Connor due to his breech position. So when I met with my first doctor this go around they advised another C-section delivery. Stating that Winter Haven regency doesnt allow vbac deliveries. Turns out the only hospital in Polk County that does is Lakeland Regional. So I called around and finally decided to see a midwife at Lakeland OB/Gyn. My first appointment with them isnt until Dec. 12th.

Which means I will be 6 weeks with out a doctors visit. Which kind of makes me nervous. I started to worry about another C-section this time around because my first experience was horrible in every way you could possibly imagine. I wasnt able to take care of myself fully for about 3 weeks because my incision reopened multiple times. My major concern this time is Connor. Having a c-section means I wouldnt be able to do most of the things I do now with him. As much as the hubby is out of town working, this has me terrified. I have to be able to care for myself as well as Connor and our new little girl. We live in the middle of nowhere and the closest family member I have works full time 35 minutes away. I dont want to  be put in a situation that could cause harm to myself or most importantly my children.

Has anyone tried a vbac, would you be willing to share how your experience was...regrets or no regrets?

I was wondering if any of you ladies have been in the same, or similar situation and could offer up oppinions or advice. Thanks a bunch :)